{"id":5258,"date":"2024-12-06T14:33:46","date_gmt":"2024-12-06T13:33:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/?p=5258"},"modified":"2024-12-10T15:23:58","modified_gmt":"2024-12-10T14:23:58","slug":"et-si-on-apprenait-a-devenir-copines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/index.php\/2024\/12\/06\/et-si-on-apprenait-a-devenir-copines\/","title":{"rendered":"Et si on apprenait \u00e0 devenir copines ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Tu viens me rendre visite r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement, trop fr\u00e9quemment \u00e0 mon go\u00fbt.<\/p>\n

Quand je crois t’avoir sem\u00e9e une bonne fois pour toutes, voil\u00e0 que tu apparais \u00e0 nouveau !<\/p>\n

Tu es pr\u00e9sente en mon creux depuis presque toujours, ai-je le sentiment.<\/p>\n

Quand je te sens en mon sein d\u00e8s le matin, le rejet et la panique se manifestent \u00e0 grands cris.<\/p>\n

Je commence ma journ\u00e9e avec toi, me disant que je n’y arriverai pas, que je ne veux plus de ta compagnie.<\/p>\n

A ta pr\u00e9sence se rajoutent ce sentiment de d\u00e9sespoir et les sensations qui vont de pair.<\/p>\n

Pourquoi es-tu l\u00e0 ce matin encore ? Pourquoi ne me laisses-tu pas tranquille ? J’aspire \u00e0 une pause, \u00e0 ne plus te ressentir.<\/p>\n

Alors je cherche le pourquoi de ta pr\u00e9sence, ce qui vient te donner de l’importance.<\/p>\n

Je cherche comment te faire partir, et me sentir enfin libre.<\/p>\n

Je ne veux plus de toi, tu as fait assez de d\u00e9g\u00e2ts.<\/p>\n

Je ne veux plus de tes visites, elles viennent me mettre \u00e0 mal.<\/p>\n

Quand je ne te sens plus plusieurs jours d’affil\u00e9e, je souffle. \u00c7a y est, tu es partie pour de bon.<\/p>\n

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\u00ab\u00a0Coucou, me revoil\u00e0 !\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

…<\/p>\n

Et si, au lieu de te rejeter, de vouloir te faire dispara\u00eetre pour que jamais tu ne te repr\u00e9sentes \u00e0 moi, j’acceptais ta pr\u00e9sence ?<\/p>\n

Et si je t’accueillais bien que cela soit inconfortable ?<\/p>\n

J’ai le sentiment que tu entraves ma vie, que tu viens me restreindre, m’emp\u00eacher de vivre librement.<\/p>\n

J’arrive parfois \u00e0 t’amoindrir, \u00e0 te redonner ta juste place.<\/p>\n

Alors, si on apprenait \u00e0 devenir copines ? Si je te laissais t’exprimer sans chercher \u00e0 comprendre la raison de ta venue ? Si j’acceptais que tu sois l\u00e0, le temps que tu partes jusqu’\u00e0 ta prochaine visite ?<\/p>\n

Je souffre de te subir. Je m’\u00e9puise \u00e0 esp\u00e9rer que tu disparaisses et \u00e0 d\u00e9ployer toutes sortes de stratag\u00e8mes pour te semer. Rien n’y fait, tu es l\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Et si on apprenait \u00e0 devenir copines et que ta pr\u00e9sence ne soit plus un frein mais l’occasion d’aller plus loin ? Plus loin dans l’acceptation de comment je fonctionne, de qui je suis et de quoi je suis faite ?<\/p>\n

Si, enfin, j’apprenais \u00e0 me r\u00e9concilier avec toi pour entendre et comprendre ce que tu as \u00e0 me dire ?<\/p>\n

Peut-\u00eatre pourrions-nous faire de notre alliance une force ?<\/p>\n

Aussi je vais apprendre, doucement, \u00e0 t’accueillir pour ne plus te rejeter ni te subir.<\/p>\n

Toi, cette boule d’angoisses qui vient se nicher en mon \u00eatre, en mon creux.<\/p>\n

Et un jour prochain, je souhaite pouvoir te remercier pour ce que tu m’auras aid\u00e9 \u00e0 franchir, \u00e0 comprendre de moi et pour avoir appris la r\u00e9silience.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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