{"id":4747,"date":"2024-03-04T18:04:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-04T17:04:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/?p=4747"},"modified":"2024-03-04T18:07:14","modified_gmt":"2024-03-04T17:07:14","slug":"un-temps-suspendu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/04\/un-temps-suspendu\/","title":{"rendered":"Un temps suspendu."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Elle venait d’avoir 40 ans. Elle voyait ce passage symbolique comme un point d’\u00e9quilibre dans la courbe de la vie. S’offrait \u00e0 elle autant de temps \u00e0 vivre que de temps v\u00e9cu. Plus ou moins.<\/p>\n

Ce moment charni\u00e8re, elle ne l’avait pas tr\u00e8s bien v\u00e9cu. Des maux qu’elle croyait derri\u00e8re elle s’\u00e9taient rappel\u00e9 \u00e0 son bon souvenir. Et des larmes aussi, beaucoup de larmes. Et une sensation de grand vide. Et nombre d’interrogations. Qu’avait-elle fait de 40 ann\u00e9es \u00e9coul\u00e9es ? En avait-elle pleinement profit\u00e9 ? S’\u00e9tait-elle sentie, au moins une fois, r\u00e9ellement et incontestablement vivante ?…<\/p>\n

Et qu’allait-elle construire au fil des ann\u00e9es \u00e0 venir ? Allait-elle se lancer \u00e0 explorer et d\u00e9couvrir de nouveaux horizons (enfin) ? Allait-elle se donner la chance de se vivre \u00e0 100% ? Ce grand champ de rien et de tout qui s’offrait \u00e0 elle lui faisait peur.<\/p>\n

La question de la mort, qui tr\u00e8s t\u00f4t avait fait apparition dans sa vie (avant m\u00eame qu’elle ne d\u00e9couvre la vie), occupait souvent ses r\u00e9flexions et appr\u00e9hensions. Ce n’\u00e9tait pas tant de mourir qui lui posait question, mais plut\u00f4t de savoir comment celle-ci allait se d\u00e9rouler et si elle en aurait conscience ?<\/p>\n

Au moment de s’endormir, il y a un court moment o\u00f9 l’on prend conscience que l’on est pr\u00e9sent mais que l’on bascule petit \u00e0 petit dans le sommeil, et apr\u00e8s, plus rien jusqu’au r\u00e9veil. Est-ce que c’\u00e9tait pareil pour la mort ? Est-ce que l’on se sentait partir petit \u00e0 petit mais que l’on n’avait pas conscience du point de bascule ?<\/p>\n

Une fois morte, se souviendrait-elle de sa vie sur terre, de son identit\u00e9, des gens qu’elle a aim\u00e9s ? Ou bien aura-t-elle des bribes de souvenirs, comme les restes d’un r\u00eave ?<\/p>\n

Sans le savoir, ses lectures s’\u00e9taient orient\u00e9es vers ce qui l’habitait : \u00ab\u00a0Jung. Un voyage vers soi\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0Socrate, J\u00e9sus et Bouddha\u00a0\u00bb, deux ouvrages de Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Lenoir. Ces lectures lui apportaient r\u00e9confort et pistes de r\u00e9flexion, le soir dans son lit. Avec Cookie \u00e0 ses c\u00f4t\u00e9s sur le lit. Des moments qui lui permettaient de s’ouvrir \u00e0 plus grand et plus vaste qu’elle-m\u00eame. Des moments qui lui permettaient de s’apaiser un peu, et lui accordaient une respiration au milieu de ce tumulte \u00e9motionnel et existentiel.<\/p>\n

Elle avait peur de ne pas ch\u00e9rir assez les moments qui allaient venir. Elle avait peur de passer plus de temps \u00e0 se demander comment profiter de la vie qu’\u00e0 profiter de celle-ci ! Elle avait peur d’elle-m\u00eame. Elle commen\u00e7ait \u00e0 bien conna\u00eetre ses modes et sch\u00e9mas de fonctionnement. Elle savait combien elle pouvait donner le pouvoir \u00e0 ses inqui\u00e9tudes et \u00e0 ses doutes.<\/p>\n

Ce n’\u00e9tait pas tant ce que la vie allait lui proposer qui l’inqui\u00e9tait, c’\u00e9tait plut\u00f4t de savoir ce qu’elle en ferait. Si elle serait capable de franchir certains obstacles, qui lui barraient la route depuis un bout de temps. Elle ne se faisait pas assez confiance. Et son corps, depuis quelques temps lui envoyaient des signaux.<\/p>\n

Elle souhaitait avoir un temps suspendu. Un temps o\u00f9 tout serait au ralenti, lui offrant l’opportunit\u00e9 de se reposer et de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir en profondeur aux \u00ab\u00a0grandes\u00a0\u00bb questions qu’elle se posait. Les r\u00e9ponses, ce sera \u00e0 elle de les apporter.<\/p>\n

Elle souhaitait prendre le temps de faire une pause afin d’\u00eatre pr\u00eate, le moment venu, \u00e0 se vivre et se r\u00e9aliser pleinement et de n’avoir aucun regret ni remord.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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