{"id":238,"date":"2022-03-25T15:03:22","date_gmt":"2022-03-25T14:03:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/?p=238"},"modified":"2022-03-25T15:04:22","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T14:04:22","slug":"un-anniversaire-de-mariage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/index.php\/2022\/03\/25\/un-anniversaire-de-mariage\/","title":{"rendered":"Un anniversaire de mariage"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u00a0Aujourd’hui, mes parents f\u00eatent leur cinquanti\u00e8me anniversaire de mariage. 50 ans ! Toujours unis, toujours amoureux, toujours complices.<\/p>

Et des \u00e9preuves, des hauts, des bas, ils en ont travers\u00e9s, comme tout un chacun, comme toutes les personnes qui choisissent chaque jour d\u2019\u0153uvrer ensemble, l’une \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 de l’autre. Cet anniversaire m’am\u00e8ne \u00e0 r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur le temps qui passe, la vie \u00e0 deux. Qu’est-ce qui fait qu’un couple dure ? Qu’est-ce qui fait qu’un couple se s\u00e9pare ? Comment concilier couple et \u00e9panouissement personnel ?<\/p>

Les sentiments sont une base essentielle, l’essence m\u00eame de la vie \u00e0 deux, je pense. Mais est-ce suffisant ? Je ne le crois pas. Il faut savoir accepter pleinement l’autre, dans son int\u00e9gralit\u00e9, et garder en t\u00eate qu’on ne peut jamais \u00eatre certain que notre compagnon (compagne de vie) restera \u00e0 nos c\u00f4t\u00e9s pour toujours. C’est douloureux d’int\u00e9grer cela. Et pourtant, je pense que ce n’est qu’\u00e0 cette condition qu’un couple peut durer. Moi-m\u00eame j’ai du mal \u00e0 accepter cela. Bien s\u00fbr que j’ai envie que Pierre colle \u00e0 ma vision de la vie, qu’il me rassure, qu’il r\u00e9ponde \u00e0 mes attentes. Mais ce n’est pas possible. C’est un \u00eatre \u00e0 part de moi, dissociable de l’entit\u00e9 couple. Qui doit exister \u00e0 part enti\u00e8re, avec ou sans moi (m\u00eame si \u00e9go\u00efstement j’aimerais que ce ne soit pas le cas).<\/p>

Aimer, c’est accueillir son partenaire de vie. Respecter ses envies, ses projets, ses r\u00eaves. Vivre \u00e0 deux, c’est respecter la libert\u00e9 de chacun et l’accompagner au quotidien. S’apporter mutuellement du bien-\u00eatre, de la compr\u00e9hension, de l’\u00e9coute, de la patience. Mais ne pas oublier que c’est en acceptant que l’autre puisse partir un jour que l’on rend plus fort l’engagement de vivre \u00e0 deux. Ceci peut para\u00eetre antinomique. Et pourtant.<\/p>

Un ouvrage majeur est venu m’apporter une vision nouvelle du couple : la Ma\u00eetrise de l’amour de Don Miguel Ruiz (merci encore \u00e0 mon ami si cher qui me l’a offert). Je ne peux que vous recommander de le lire. Il parle de la vie \u00e0 deux, de ce que l’on ne peut pas exiger de l’autre, au risque de l’emprisonner et de le perdre.<\/p>

L’autre ne doit pas \u00eatre l\u00e0 pour nous aimer \u00e0 notre place. Il nous revient de nous aimer nous-m\u00eame. Personne ne le pourra \u00e0 notre place. L’autre n’est pas l\u00e0 pour combler ce manque, cette incertitude de ne pas \u00eatre aim\u00e9(e). Et celui, ou celle qui partage notre vie, nous aimera d’autant plus de mani\u00e8re juste, sinc\u00e8re, que nous nous aimerons de mani\u00e8re juste et sinc\u00e8re.<\/p>

J’essaie d’int\u00e9grer pleinement cette \u00e9quation. J’y \u0153uvre du mieux que je peux. Je tr\u00e9buche, je chute. Le chemin commence tout juste. Mais j’y suis, je l’ai trouv\u00e9 ! Apr\u00e8s bient\u00f4t 19 ans de vies partag\u00e9es avec Pierre.<\/p>

Quelle sera la suite de notre chemin de vie \u00e0 deux ? Je ne sais pas. Je sais simplement que chaque jour j’aime avoir des attentions \u00e0 son \u00e9gard, j’aime \u00eatre surprise par une nouvelle facette de sa personnalit\u00e9, j’aime r\u00e9aliser que je ne connais pas encore totalement qui il est. J’aime le voir \u00e9voluer, progresser, douter de son chemin de vie \u00e0 lui, qui finit toujours par rencontrer le mien. Aujourd’hui encore. Et demain, je l’esp\u00e8re de tout mon c\u0153ur.<\/p>

Je suis heureuse de cet anniversaire de mariage de mes parents. Ils ne sont pas parfaits, mais c\u00f4te \u00e0 c\u00f4te, ils font face aux \u00e9v\u00e8nements de la vie et sont l\u00e0 l’un pour l’autre.<\/p>

Merci Maman et Papa pour ce bel enseignement de la vie \u00e0 deux. Imparfait, mais empreint de v\u00e9rit\u00e9 et d’authenticit\u00e9.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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