{"id":2067,"date":"2022-12-31T17:40:52","date_gmt":"2022-12-31T16:40:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/?p=2067"},"modified":"2023-01-06T10:06:25","modified_gmt":"2023-01-06T09:06:25","slug":"garder-son-ame-denfant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hasard2vies.com\/index.php\/2022\/12\/31\/garder-son-ame-denfant\/","title":{"rendered":"Garder son \u00e2me d’enfant."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Garder son \u00e2me d’enfant. Et ne pas la perdre en chemin.<\/p>\n

Devenue adulte, j’ai parfois le sentiment que le poids des responsabilit\u00e9s et des \u00ab\u00a0il faut se comporter comme \u00e7a, donner l’exemple, \u00eatre s\u00e9rieuse, arr\u00eater de faire l’enfant\u00a0\u00bb sont venus m’accabler. Comme si \u00eatre adulte, c’\u00e9tait arr\u00eater de s’amuser et d’\u00eatre spontan\u00e9(e). Comme si on devait rev\u00eatir un costume de grand, et laisser le costume de super-h\u00e9ros ou de princesse dans le placard, et les r\u00eaves qui vont avec. Comme si on devait adopter un comportement de fa\u00e7ade car c’est comme cela que les adultes doivent se comporter.<\/p>\n

Comme si, devenu(e) adulte, on devait abandonner une part de nous. Comme si notre enfance et  notre adolescence \u00e9taient dissociables de nous. Des \u00eatres que nous avons oubli\u00e9s. Des \u00eatres que nous ne sommes plus une fois \u00ab\u00a0grand(e)s\u00a0\u00bb. Laisser ces parties de notre vie derri\u00e8re nous, le plus loin possible. Et ne leur laisser qu’une petite place, le court temps des souvenirs.<\/p>\n

Pour No\u00ebl, Pierre m’a offert la gare King’cross Harry Potter en L\u00e9go ! Et j’ai ador\u00e9 ce cadeau!! J’ai aim\u00e9 le d\u00e9couvrir, aim\u00e9 le regarder et aim\u00e9 le construire. Le temps de ce montage, l’Agn\u00e8s enfant et l’Agn\u00e8s adulte \u00e9taient r\u00e9unies. Je me suis sentie heureuse, pleine de vie et de magie !<\/p>\n

Aujourd’hui et pour le reste de mon existence je veux \u00eatre toutes les parts d’Agn\u00e8s. Chacune a sa place. Chacune a ses particularit\u00e9s et je n’ai pas \u00e0 choisir entre l’une ou l’autre.<\/p>\n

Je suis enfant quand je regarde pour la 10\u00e8me fois Harry Potter ou que je joue \u00e0 des jeux de soci\u00e9t\u00e9, ou lorsque encore je saute \u00e0 pieds joints dans une flaque d’eau. Je suis adolescente lorsque je relis mes journaux intimes ou les lettres que l’on s’\u00e9crivait ma meilleure amie et moi, ou quand je me refais l’int\u00e9grale de Dawson (eh oui!). Je suis justement adulte quand j’accorde du temps \u00e0 l’Agn\u00e8s enfant et \u00e0 l’Agn\u00e8s adolescente, que je leur permets de s’exprimer, de dire ce qu’elles n’ont pas os\u00e9, ou pu, dire \u00e0 leur \u00e9poque de vie. Quand je les accompagne \u00e0 renouer avec leurs sentiments et leurs ressentis, et que je les aide \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir certaines blessures, avec le recul et l\u00e0 o\u00f9 j’en suis aujourd’hui.<\/p>\n

Regarder la vie avec ses yeux d’enfant, c’est l’appr\u00e9cier avec simplicit\u00e9, \u00e0 sa juste valeur. Sans toutes les strates qui sont venues obscurcir et biaiser notre regard et notre perception du monde.<\/p>\n

Go\u00fbter la vie avec son \u00e2me d’enfant, c’est la savourer pleinement avec authenticit\u00e9 et gourmandise. Sans tous ces pr\u00e9ceptes et politiquement corrects que l’on nous a inculqu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Ressentir la vie avec son c\u0153ur d’enfant, c’est laisser la place \u00e0 la magie et \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte. C’est permettre \u00e0 la vie de nous surprendre et de nous \u00e9merveiller. Sans les blessures et les chagrins qui sont venus fa\u00e7onner notre c\u0153ur et qui l’ont rendu plus herm\u00e9tique, plus hostile \u00e0 la vie.<\/p>\n

Respirer la vie avec sa joie et son innocence d’enfant, c’est la vivre pleinement et inconditionnellement. Sans ces pollutions mentales et soci\u00e9tales qui sont venues petit \u00e0 petit amoindrir notre plaisir d’\u00eatre en vie.<\/p>\n

Garder son \u00e2me d’enfant. Accorder de l’attention \u00e0 l’adolescent(e) que nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9. C’est justement en renouant avec ces parties de nous et en les incarnant que nous sommes des adultes pleins et entiers. Et non pas en les mettant de c\u00f4t\u00e9. Elles ont particip\u00e9 et participent encore \u00e0 qui nous sommes aujourd’hui.<\/p>\n

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